Dating in Seoul, Waygook Perspectives
I asked some Westerners (and English teachers) what the dating scene was like in Korea. Here is another unedited, and particularly philosophical response:
Andrew Volusia*, Male Aged 25-30, American
Korean woman, are an enigma. gettin the number is a very very simple process, almost instant, but progress beyond that is a series of steps. basically show you are trustworthy enough, once you are trusted, you are cooked for and cared about.
dating scene, meeting girls at the nite time places is unadvisable and really hard, subway, gs25. waffle shop almost easier…..
white girls are really starved for attention, as horrible as this sounds. meeting white girls more of a low hanging fruit scenario.
westerns face a great difficulty in being moderate, to describe this i have to describe the extremes. 1.The apologist( the worst in my mind) a white guy who all of the sudden, thinks all of western culture is brutish and offensive. one who pretends to adopt everything korean.this is so pussy 2. the savage(the sex crazed animal) who is ruthless and motivated by only one goal. scoring and plundering. the middle path is wise.
and my advice about meetin korean woman, “the older the better your chances”…..sounds f*cked up but it is true.


i’m 55 – with MA teaching english as foreign language – white – divorced – nice looking…going to korea to teach – am i too old for korean dating scene…would like to meet a nice woman to marry – 35 to 45 years old.
Korea might be perfect for you actually. There seem to be many 30 something Korean women that are looking for a nice guy and a change in their life (ie a foreigner). And they look 20 too! There may be one in every school…